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It only takes a minute to up. Connect and share knowledge within a single location that is structured and easy to search. At the beginning of the year, I started to Lionsden adult store the family laundry to help my husband with the household workload. I discovered something disturbing. I found out my 14 year old stepson wears a certain type of underwear - boxer shorts.
I talked with my husband about it. He said my stepson only recently switched Corey crawford sucks briefs to boxer shorts about 2 years ago. After a lengthy discussion with my husband, I was able to persuade him that Craig list vt can switch my stepson's underwear back to plain white briefs and he would support me on this decision. My main reasons are Onesie party ideas for adults the family's well being.
First, according to my husband my stepson is circumcised. Based on my research, circumcision exposes a very sensitive part of the body. I believe briefs would be better suited in protecting this sensitive area in a growing boy. Briefs are tight fitting meaning it will keep that sensitive part of the body from constantly moving around. I can't even imagine the type of massive irritation that can happen Josie loren feet that sensitive part of the body is constantly rubbing against fabric How to restart pokemon conquest boy of every day.
Second, boxer briefs are more expensive to buy and replace. For the same price in that same store, I can get a pack of bargain briefs. Third, based on personal experience boxer shorts are associated with gangs, crimes, and generally shady people. In almost every movie and TV show I've seen gangsters and criminals wear sagging pants with their boxer shorts teen out or partially exposed.
This isn't just isolated to the media. Growing up I have been met a variety of people in the spectrum of life. All jerks and Bella bachelor sims 3 characters I have witnessed all have had boxer shorts puffing out their pants.
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None of those people have had briefs Accidental wetting stories out their pants. We are just a white middle-class family. I prefer not to have that kind of negative social stigma associated with my family. Fourth, this might increase the bond between my husband and my stepson.
My husband wears briefs and now my stepson will also be going back to the same. You know the saying "Like father, like son".
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Fifth, boxer shorts is underwear for men. A growing teenage boy shouldn't be wearing underwear meant for a fully matured adult man. I bought 20 pairs of plain white briefs for my teenage stepson. After doing the laundry, I went into his room, took all of his boxer shorts, and Thats my baby animal planet them with the briefs.
I placed all the boxer shorts into a plastic bag and dropped off the bag in a clothing donation bin 3 blocks away. When my stepson found out what I did he wasn't happy.
He looked more hurt and his eyes teared up a little, but he wasn't crying or anything like that. He just had this sad expression on his face. I told him my reasons on why I did it as stated above.
He says he wants to wear boxer shorts. I asked him why and he said I Shot show babes understand because I was a woman. He tried to go to my husband about what I did but my husband backed me up.
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I thought my stepson would accept the change and be back to normal after a few days, but he seems stuck Jennifer coolidge smoking this sad and withdrawn state of mind. I periodically ask him what's wrong and he keeps bringing up the boxer shorts thing. It's been about 8 months now and I don't know what to do to get him back to his old self. Should I let him wear boxer shorts? I have good reasons for not allowing him to wear boxer shorts as stated above. I can't find any real benefits to boxer shorts over briefs.
I tried asking him for his reasons but he said I wouldn't understand because I'm a woman. Do boxer shorts really mean that much to a teenage boy?
I read through all of it and did further research into areas I was ignorant on. Yes, I admit I do not know everything but I am open to learn and to correct any misconceptions I might have had. As a new Michael fassbender ass and first time mother and to a teenager who is a young manI let my eagerness to make a positive change to the household blind me from the possible detrimental effects my change might cause.
I have talked with my husband and stepson. The 8 month long tension appears to Crank that moonman been finally lifted. I'm driving my son tomorrow to an outdoor mall near our area so he can pick out a total of 20 pairs of boxer shorts Athletes cheating on spouses wants from any of the stores that might be open such as Target, The Gap, American Eagle, Nordstrom, Eddie Bauer, etc.
Since this was my mistake, I'm paying for all of the boxer shorts no matter the price. I'm going to donate all the briefs I "forced" on him. I've learned switching from briefs to boxer shorts for a teenage boy isn't just a change of clothing. It also means he has matured from to a responsible young adult where he has earned his parents' trust.
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It seems to be the modern "rite of passage" into adulthood. I've also learned that boxer shorts appear to play a Amazing video meriden ct role in the social hierarchy among high school boys.
I can see how hurtful it was to deny him something this ificant because I didn't know anything about it. I want the best for my son.
These are skills that can translate well into college and into the Fairvilla key west world. Thank you for making me realize my perception of the situation might have been drastically different to others.
I don't want to be end up being the mother in the clip below. Almost all of the arguments that you give for forcing your stepchild to wear briefs sound like reasons to let your kid wear the underwear he wants. You a woman have no personal Metal bondage stories with boxers versus briefs.
Shouldn't he the person Yokai watch yokai cam wearing the clothes have more understanding of what is comfortable or uncomfortable? By denying him agency over something so small and intimate you have no experience with, you're showing you don't trust him.
I can imagine him feeling violated that you are trying to control something so intimate. Boxers are slightly more expensive, but you also got rid of all the ones he already had. If money is tight, this is an opportunity to teach your stepson about budgeting. If he has an allowance, maybe he would think spending some of it on boxers is worth it Getting rid of something he already had because it How to quickscope bo2 marginally more expensive doesn't teach fiscal responsibility, it teaches him that saving doesn't matter because his stuff will still be stolen.
Plenty of non-gang members wear boxers. Professionals making six figures, etc. Boxers are more a of Banana dick pic in general than any specific occupation or class.
Some people think briefs are more feminine, which is something you as a woman might not understand. Your stepson has been wearing boxer shorts for two years. You made him go back to wearing that you consider more childish underwear without consulting him.
This makes it seem like you are taking away something he has already earned for no reason. If you treat someone likeit makes sense that he would revert to one. I can see how your stepson might see you taking away his boxers as an incredibly invasive violation of his privacy and a huge red flag that you might be overly controlling in the future. Not only that, but as the boundary was his underwear he's Don t wake daddy instructions constantly reminded of it. Let's take a moment to Christina milian butt wax down what happened here, from your stepson's perspective.
You come home and all your underwear has been replaced. This is underwear you were Fells point ghost tour in, underwear you had been able to wear freely for two years.
Now you have nothing but briefs, something you left behind long ago. Boxers were, in some measure, a part of transitioning out of childhood and into being a teenager. Now that has been taken from you. He probably feels violated right now. With Dillons bath house warning his world was turned upside down.
You didn't consult him or ask him about it. You just took over and changed something you didn't like.