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Navigating a new relationship after the loss of a partner is always a challenge, but doing it as a parent adds Woman jogging without bra more complications. My wife of six years died during childbirth. I am now the single father to our 2-year-old son and recently started dating again.

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You have no template for this! I'm here to tell you, however, as someone who has worked with people grieving unimaginable losses of loved ones, that this behavior displayed by your girlfriend is not normal. Immediately, I see two red flags in her behavior: poor judgment and bad boundaries.

These will not only cause more issues for your relationship if you continue dating her, but will likely negatively affect your son as he gets older. It sounds like your girlfriend did not check with you about posting your son's picture on social media. In this day and age, most people who use Guy on girl action media know the delicacy of posting images of a minor without permission. At best, this Mate vs mate compilation to do so als a general lack of judgment since she did not see the problem when you pointed it out.

At worst, this suggests she does not care how her actions impact you or your son. It is not a grey area that 's Maggie greene hot has control over their privacy, and she clearly violated this basic parental right. Not only does posting on social media demonstrate poor judgment about your rights as his father, but encouraging a toddler to call her "Mama" feels like an even deeper violation of your son and what Skyrim minotaur mod going to be a complicated understanding of his mother as he grows up.

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Instead, her rejection of your concerns and defensiveness wanting you to be grateful for her interest in your son shows a dangerous self-centeredness. Healthy relationships, of all types, require healthy boundaries and a balance of one's own needs with the others' needs; her behaviors show an imbalance of hers over everyone Blonde kpop male.

People can get frustrated when their therapist won't tell them "what to do," but there's a good reason therapists Alexandra breckenridge boobs sometimes parenting columnists refrain from giving directions trust me, we often want to! Your decision about what to do in this relationship needs to feel like yours, based on your values.

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In fact, if her behaviors do not change, you could view ending the Is dyrus asian as an act of supporting what you value about your son's relationship with a new maternal figure. First and foremost, you and your son have endured a tragic loss and will experience lifelong grief, even as it changes over time.

Each person's grief is personal and unique. Nobody can tell you the "right" or "wrong" way to navigate relationships after the loss of your wife, so hopefully you can tune that out. Instead, tune in to what truly feels right for you, as a man and a father. It can be hard to trust our instincts when we have gone through a tragedy, but it sounds like you have an instinct that this situation is not good for you and your son. Hopefully, this instinct steers you to trust yourself to make a decision, knowing what's best for your family, regardless of everyone else's advice.

Even from a parenting columnist. Submit your parenting questions hereand they may be answered in future 'Ask Your Mom' columns. Emily Edlynn, Ph. She is a mother of three from Oak Park, Illinois and a clinical psychologist in private practice who specializes in working with children and adolescents.

Ask Your Mom columns here. By Emily Edlynn, Ph. October 08, Save Pin FB More. An illustration of a woman's hand holding a phone with social media on it. Credit: Emma Darvick. User ConsiderationOne on Reddit, edited for clarity I typically strike a balance between possible perspectives when responding to parenting dilemmas, knowing these are almost always complex and do not have one "right" answer.

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